Grief & Trauma Therapy and Certified Grief Coaching for Women
Your Virtual Sanctuary Where Loss Meets Healing Light
Your Grief Deserves Sacred Space
Finding Light in Your Grief Journey
In a world that whispers "move on" or "stay strong," your grief can feel like a lonely journey through overwhelming darkness.
There is no timeline for healing.
There is no right way to grieve.
Whether you're carrying profound loss, navigating life-altering transitions, or feeling consumed by
experiences too painful to process alone, you've found a place where your pain is truly understood.
Here, your grief isn't something to overcome.
It's something to move through with compassion and courage.
Psychotherapy for Grief & Transformational Coaching
As a licensed grief and trauma therapist and certified grief coach, I combine professional expertise with personal understanding to bring gentle light into your darkest moments through secure virtual sessions.
My calling is to help women who have experienced profound loss and trauma transform their grief into wisdom and renewed purpose so they can honor their experience while reclaiming joy, meaning, and connection in life.
What you need is a sacred space where:
Your emotions are witnessed without judgment
Your story is honored at your own pace
Your path forward is gently illuminated
Specialized Sanctuaries Offering Comprehensive Support
Grief & Trauma Sanctuary
Licensed therapy services for deep clinical healing and trauma processing
Grief Coaching Sanctuary
Transformational coaching for women ready to reclaim purpose and joy after loss
Even in your darkest moments, you carry the light to illuminate your path forward.
Sometimes we need a guide who has walked through darkness herself.
Someone who understands not just professionally, but personally, what it means to find your way back to hope.
Your sanctuary awaits...
You're Not Walking This Path Alone
From Personal Darkness to Professional Purpose
Hello friend,
I'm Esther Jayne
I understand the journey from darkness to light.
I know this path because I've walked it myself, gaining an understanding that comes from my own profound loss.
I didn't choose to become an expert in grief and trauma. Life chose this path for me when my world shattered in an instant. The sudden, tragic death of my mother thrust me into a darkness so profound I wasn't sure I'd ever find my way back.
I know the sleepless nights when grief feels like a weight on your chest. I understand the moments when well-meaning people urge you to "move on" or "be strong" and you feel even more alone. When they say "at least they're not suffering" and you wonder if anyone truly understands the depth of what you've lost.
I've felt the loneliness of carrying pain that feels too big for words, too deep for others to comprehend.
I've been there too, carrying that isolating weight of grief that no words seem to capture.
But I've also discovered something that changed everything.
Even in our darkest moments, we carry within us an incredible capacity for healing and transformation.
Not healing that erases our love or diminishes our loss, but healing that honors what we've experienced while opening us to life again.
My personal journey through traumatic grief became my greatest teacher.
It revealed that with the right guide, someone who truly understands, we can transform our deepest pain into profound wisdom, our isolation into connection, and our despair into hope.
This is why I created
the sanctuaries, dedicated to grief and trauma healing.
Not as someone who learned about grief from the outside, but as someone who has walked through grief’s darkness and emerged transformed.
My Professional Training Includes:
Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) FL & NY
Certified EMDR Clinician & Trauma Professional
Certified Thanatologist (CT)
Certified Grief Coach
Certified Grief Educator (David Kessler trained)
Polyvagal-Informed Practitioner (Polyvagal Institute)
My professional training gives me the expertise,
but my personal grief experience gives me the heart to hold space for your sacred journey.
You don't need someone to fix you.
You need someone who sees you, understands you, and believes in your capacity to heal.
That someone is me.
Your sanctuary is here.
Ready to discover which sanctuary path is right for you?
Do Any of These Experiences
Resonate with Your Heart?
Understanding When Professional Support Can Transform Your Journey
- Are you navigating profound grief or trauma that has disrupted your sense of normalcy, leaving you wondering if you'll ever feel whole again?
- Do you feel like you're carrying overwhelming emotional and physical weight that others can't see or understand? The kind of exhaustion that affects your sleep, relationships, decision-making, and hope for the future?
- Are you tired of well-meaning people offering advice that minimizes your experience, when what you really need is someone who truly understands the depth of grief and trauma?
- Do you find yourself stuck between wanting to honor your loss or difficult experiences while also longing to reclaim your capacity for joy, purpose, and meaningful connection?
- Are you ready for professional support from someone who combines clinical expertise with personal understanding of walking through profound darkness and finding light again?
If you recognized yourself in any of these questions, you've found your sanctuary.
Whether your healing journey calls for psychotherapy for grief and trauma or transformational coaching, our virtual sanctuary offers the professional expertise and personal understanding needed to guide you from surviving to truly thriving.
Choose Your Path to Healing
Two Specialized Sanctuaries for Your Grief Journey
Two sacred sanctuaries await,
Each offering in its own specialized way:
Compassionate Presence
Evidence-Based Approaches
Holistic Transformation
Both paths honor your grief.
Both support your healing.
The choice is simply which approach serves your current needs.
Grief & Trauma Sanctuary
Licensed Grief & Trauma Therapy Services
When you need professional clinical support to process deep wounds and build a foundation for emotional stability.
A licensed therapeutic sanctuary where your most challenging experiences are met with expert care,
evidence-based approaches, and profound understanding.
This path supports you when:
Processing trauma feels too heavy to carry alone
Navigating acute grief when the pain feels consuming
Healing complex loss that affects major aspects of your life
Finding stability when emotions feel too big to manage
The Grief & Trauma Sanctuary specializes in evidence-based therapy approaches tailored to your specific healing journey.
Whether you're seeking psychotherapy for grief support, trauma-informed treatment, or EMDR therapy,
we provide expert clinical care with compassionate understanding.
Heal Your Grief
Process Your Trauma
Resolve Traumatic Memories
Grief Coaching Sanctuary
Transformational Grief Coaching for Women
When you're ready to transform your grief experience into renewed purpose, meaning, and forward movement in life.
A supportive coaching sanctuary where women discover strength, resilience, and joy after loss through holistic guidance and Polyvagal-informed practices.
This path is perfect when you're ready for:
Moving forward while honoring your grief and growth
Discover purpose that honors your loss while embracing life
Building resilience through mind-body-spirit integration
Transforming grief into wisdom that lights your path forward
The Grief Coaching Sanctuary offers specialized transformation approaches designed for women's unique grief and loss journeys.
As a certified grief coach, grief educator, somatic movement guide, and Polyvagal-informed practitioner, I provide holistic mind-body-spirit support that honors your loss while guiding you toward renewed purpose and joy.
Sanctuary Sessions
Sanctuary Circles
Sanctuary Gatherings
What Becomes Possible in Your Sanctuary
Honor Your Grief, Discover Your Light
Healing isn't about returning to who you were before loss changed everything.
It's about discovering who you are becoming through the sacred act of honoring your grief.
In your sanctuary journey, profound transformation unfolds naturally.
Not the kind that erases your love or minimizes your loss,
but the kind that allows you to carry your loved one forward
while reclaiming your capacity for joy, purpose, and connection.
Your Path to Renewal
From Overwhelming Darkness → Finding Your Light
Discover moments of peace, then hope, until light becomes your companion once more.
From Nervous System Overwhelm → Body-Based Restoration
Shift from physical dysregulation to feeling safe and grounded in your own body again.
From Emotional Chaos → Inner Strength
Develop tools and resilience that serve you for life.
From Isolation → Sacred Connection
Move from carrying pain alone to feeling truly understood and supported.
From Feeling Powerless → Reclaiming Your Power
Gain choices, guidance, and confidence to participate in your healing journey.
From Surviving Each Day → Living with Purpose
Create meaningful life that honors both your loss and your future.
The path through grief isn't about leaving your loved one behind.
This isn't about "moving on" or "getting over" your grief.
This is about moving forward with your grief transformed into wisdom.
It's about finding new ways to carry their memory forward
while you continue to write your own story.
Your sanctuary awaits.
Your renewal begins here.
Stay connected as you walk this journey.
Free gift with your subscription:
The Sacred Grief Pause guide.
Your Healing Journey Begins With One Brave Step
I know taking this step feels overwhelming.
Perhaps you're wondering if you're "ready" for support, or if your grief is "bad enough" to reach out.
Maybe you're worried about opening up to someone new, or concerned about the vulnerability that healing requires.
Here's what I want you to know:
There is no perfect time to begin healing.
There is no "right" level of grief that qualifies you for support.
You don't need to have all the answers or even know exactly what you need.
You simply need to be ready to stop carrying this alone.
If your heart is calling you toward healing;
if some part of you believes that life can hold meaning again,
that peace is possible, that you deserve support in your darkest hour, that calling is enough.
Your sanctuary is waiting for you.
Every transformation begins with a single, courageous choice.
Today can be the day you choose to honor your grief while opening your heart to the possibility of healing.
You've already shown incredible strength by finding your way here.
Now, let's take the next step together.
Begin your healing journey with a gentle conversation
In this compassionate discussion,
we'll explore your unique grief journey and discover how your sanctuary healing can begin..
Still Exploring Your Path?
Stay connected while you find your way forward.
Receive weekly transformation practices, healing insights, and
gentle wisdom to support your healing journey and discover your path forward;
plus early access to programs and resources.
Free gift with your subscription:
The Sacred Grief Pause guide.
"Remember, even in your darkest moments,
You carry the light to illuminate your path forward."
- Esther Jayne